I’ve been a bridesmaids about 7 times and I have no problem with it! I love the fact that my soon to be married girlfriend is getting hitched and she asked me to be front and center! I’m not complaining! It’s an honor. But there are a few things to keep in mind for both parties (brides and bridesmaids). 

1. Bride: Don’t assume your girlfriends can afford expensive bridesmaids dresses. There are thousands among thousands of gowns to choose from in every price range. Although it would be great to be best friends with Vera or Monique who can whip up a gown for the girls, but that’s not the case. Please keep in mind what your girlfriends can afford. It saves on drama at the beginning!

2. Bridesmaids: If you’re not a fan of the bridesmaids dresses, this is not the time to annoyingly voice your opinion with the other bridesmaids. It’s hard to please everyone’s taste. You’re wearing the gown for one day and it’s a gown that she has chosen. 

3. Bride: It’s ok to ask for help. Believe me, the stress alone is exhausting. Ask your bridesmaids to help with stuffing out of town bags, help bake cookies for the rehearsal dinner, or assemble the invites for delivery. 

4. Bridesmaids: BE SUPPORTIVE! Your girlfriend is getting married! She chose you to stand by her side! 

5. Bride: Getting married can be stressful, but don’t take any anger out on your girls. They’re there for support. If there’s a problem….girls night it! Step away from planning for one evening, invite your girlfriends over, and have a night of movies and pampering. I have these nights with my girlfriends called “Stretchy Pants Night”. Everyone brings snacks and wine and a chick-flick and we talk about…EVERYTHING!

This is an exciting time for everyone! Enjoy the celebration!

xo, 

Yoleine

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